I have been guilty of a few bad habits in my lifetime, as most of us have been.  The two most distinct and long running habits that I had were smoking and nail biting.  Both of these habits were rooted in stress, which is one of the two main reasons people start a bad habit.  The other main reason is boredom, which may have played a role in embedding smoking and nail biting into my routine as well.
 
All too often people try to quit bad habits like these cold turkey.  This is not usually the best method, as there is nothing to fill the void of this constant repetition in your daily cycle.  Whether you habit is a crutch, or whether it is just a routine you have grown used to, your mind has a place for it and just ripping it away can cause a sort of “withdrawal”.  This can be especially true in things that have addictive ingredients in their hold on your habit, such as nicotine in cigarettes.
 
Most people, myself included, are usually more successful in their crusade against bad habits if the replace them with a good habit.  Studies have proven that it takes longer to break an existing habit than it does to ingrain a new one into your routine.  So if you think about it in this way, you can replace your bad habit with a new “good” one easier than you can try and undo what you have already taught yourself.  Also, a lot of bad habits have certain triggers.  These triggers can be as simple as smoking when you drink or even just lighting up a smoke after every meal.  If there is a trigger area, this is something you will want to avoid, or even place your new substitute habit wherever this trigger may be.  For example, you may have a cup of tea after every meal instead, where you may have otherwise gone out for a cigarette or cigar.
 
Seeing the effects that smoking had on other members of my family was enough motivation for me early on to kick the teenage habit of smoking that I had acquired through peer stress and boredom.  I was able to replace it easily with other activities that did not have the negative health effects that a continued bad habit of smoking would have had if I had continued.  Nail biting for me was the worst habit, as I started in my childhood and continued for about six years.  It was to the point I would bite them until they would be bleed and became sore.  I was able to do the same and replace this habit with other things until I no longer felt the urge to continue that disgusting habit.  I am a firm believer that the human mind can conquer anything if approached from the right angle and plan of attack.  Be sure to surround yourself with positive, like-minded people that will help you along your journey to developing healthy new habits to replace your bad ones.

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Jimmy Nevarez

Jimmy Nevarez is the Owner/President of Angus Transportation, Inc., based in Chino, California.  Jimmy pulls a 53' dry van hauling general dry freight for his own small fleet, operating on its own authority throughout all of Southern California and Southern Nevada.

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Don't forget there are other breads out there that are not wheat based. They tend to be from the ancient grains and may be more of a flat bread style but there are other options. If you are going to stick with your bread go with a high quality bread that is dense, i find 1 slice of a high qualirty bread is wroth 2-3 slices of normal bread.; Though as Linda has hinted not every diet or quitting method works the same for everyone. Quitting cold turkey can be rough but for some things iot may be the best approach it all depends on you

May 15, 2014 21:08:44 PM

Don't forget there are other breads out there that are not wheat based. They tend to be from the ancient grains and may be more of a flat bread style but there are other options. If you are going to stick with your bread go with a high quality bread that is dense, i find 1 slice of a high qualirty bread is wroth 2-3 slices of normal bread.; Though as Linda has hinted not every diet or quitting method works the same for everyone. Quitting cold turkey can be rough but for some things iot may be the best approach it all depends on you

May 15, 2014 21:08:39 PM

For those of you "Forkanados", may I suggest that you eat as MUCH protein, veggies and fruit as you like. Then, a reasonable amount of good carbs (potatoes, brown rice and quinoa). Heck, even a daily dose or two of dairy is fine. And, I will even allow some chocolate for dessert! However, the key is you have to be willing to give up the bread! Yep, no wheat based grains. Do this for six months and you will be blown away by the results. Good Luck!

May 15, 2014 14:15:21 PM

I tried to quit smoking by cutting back and i ended up smoking more. I had to go cold turkey and it was the hardest thing I have ever done with the best results. It was so rough that I know it is something I will never go through again and I will never pickup another cigarette. Like Jim I still struggle with the fork and I cannot give up food cold turkey...

May 15, 2014 6:05:02 AM

I CAN RELATE TO THIS I ONCE SMOKED TO AND IT WAS VERY HARD TO QUIT.AND I USED MY SON AS MY MOTIVATION BECAUSE I DID NOTWANT HIM TO THINK IT WAS OK.HE WACTHES EVERYTHING I DO. JUST LIKE ALL KIDS DO.

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May 14, 2014 19:38:23 PM

I put down cigarettes 5 years ago...now I need to put down the fork!

May 13, 2014 21:12:56 PM

Whatever works for you Jimmy. Glad you quit smoking.

May 13, 2014 2:36:02 AM